Church Talks




GET PREPARED FOR YOUR SENIOR MISSION

[Talk presented by John E. Enslen to Stake General Priesthood Meeting
of Montgomery Alabama Stake on Thursday evening, June 26, 2008.]

I am thankful to be among friends. I am grateful for the assignment from our stake presidency to speak. I pray that my words to you will be the Lord’s words to you. I have entitled my remarks “Get Prepared For Your Senior Mission.”

I have come to the conclusion that there will hardly be a day to pass throughout the remainder of my life in which I do not think in some significant way about Sister Enslen’s and my mission to Cambodia. The wonderful people we came to know, and grew to love, are never very far from our hearts and minds.

Whenever we arrived at our church meetinghouse for sacrament meeting, Sister Enslen and I, while still in our vehicle, were immediately surrounded, almost celebrity-like, by the members who had arrived on their bikes and motos ahead of us. We were affectionately greeted by all with bowed heads, praying hands, and the words:

“Chum rip soo-ah nung swah-cume Loak Tah nung Loak Yea.” That is the formal Cambodian greeting and means “Hello and welcome Grandfather and Grandmother.”

There I was, both a fulltime missionary and a branch president, but I was never referred to at any time as “Elder Enslen” or “President Enslen” by any of the local members of the branch. Instead, I was called
“Loak Tah” or “Grandfather.”

I personally felt honored and was not bothered in the least by this unexpected practice. I never had the slightest desire to “correct” them. I hoped that the mission president would not try to retrain the people, and he never did. Heavenly Father does not insist on our referring to Him by a priesthood title. Their affectionate reference to us as “grandfather” and “grandmother” motivated us to love them like good grandparents would love their own bloodline grandchildren.

Serving as a senior missionary was the most rewarding, the most spiritual, and the most enjoyable regular service I have ever performed. When you serve
your senior mission, you will have your own special experiences. Sister Mary Ellen Edmunds who has worked in the MTC, training senior missionaries for many years, has said: “[M]issionary work can add years to your life and life to your years.”

Knowing that I could someday serve a fulltime mission for the Church, and preparing for that eventual blessing, played a major role in fostering a personal desire to keep my life headed in the right direction—focused on that which is of most worth to my soul. (See D & C 15:6)

I learned many important lessons while serving my mission in Cambodia. The lasting lessons are the ones wherein the Spirit bore witness of a truth—confirming some realization that was at that very moment slapping me in the face. One of those lessons was this: Being an effective and successful missionary consists of keeping yourself clean, and then willingly being where your priesthood leader wants you to be, when he wants you to be there. The Lord himself takes care of all the rest. The Lord only needs a willing, obedient, weak, simple, warm-bodied soul. (See D & C 1:23)

After merely “showing up,” I witnessed miracle after miracle in the combination of circumstances taking place before my almost-unbelieving eyes, circumstances which were definitely not the product of the exercise of my agency. I bear testimony that the Lord is personally in the work. Time after time we witnessed remarkable events that only He could have (1) planned through His foreknowledge, and (2) brought to pass by His power.

These “Godcidences” spoke directly to our hearts, telling us that He knew we were there; He knew exactly what we needed; and He was desirous of pouring out a blessing upon those we were serving.

We in this room have much for which to be grateful. We know all too little of deprivation, too little of abstinence, too little of material poverty. We know all too much of indulgence, too much of consumption, and too much of material plenty. There are certain aspects of genuine Christian living which our Cambodian friends practice to a degree which you and I will never experience.

Many of the people in Cambodia, whom I came to deeply admire, are like the people in the following report that Elder Holland has shared:

I learned from a mission president…that one of his young sister missionaries, nearing the end of her very faithful and successful mission, said through her tears that she must return home immediately. When he inquired as to the problem, she told him that money had become so difficult for her family that to continue her support, the family had rented [out] their home and were using the rental proceeds to pay her mission expenses. For living accommodations, they had moved into a storage locker. For water, they used a neighbor’s outdoor tap and hose; and for a bathroom they went to a nearby gasoline station.


Those are the common types of sacrifices that Cambodian families make so that a child may serve a mission, or so that the family may go to the temple in faraway Hong Kong, or so that the family can simply survive.

Each of you is either a senior citizen or you hope to someday be a senior citizen. Thus, each of you should be either (1) ready to serve
your senior mission, or (2) preparing to serve your senior mission. Elder Hales had this to say to the older couples of the Church:

My brothers and sisters, if you have felt stirrings to engage in this work, however quiet those feelings may be, do not procrastinate the day of your service. Now is the time to prepare; now is the time to be called, the time to sacrifice. Now is the time to share your gifts and talents, and now is the time to receive God’s blessings for you and your family. ‘There is a constant need for more couple missionaries.’ (President Gordon B. Hinckley) As this workrolls forward, that need is increasing. Let us, in our richest years of experience, maturity, wisdom, and most of all, our faith, rise to meet that need as only we can.


Straight-talking Elder Oaks has given this sobering counsel to those who ignore the call to serve their senior mission: “If you are delinquent in commitment, please consider who it is you are refusing or neglecting to serve when you decline a calling…”

Elder Nelson gave this perspective on senior missionary service: “No senior missionary finds it convenient to leave. Neither did Joseph or Brigham or John or Wilford. They had children and grandchildren, too. They loved their families not one whit less, but they also loved the Lord and wanted to serve Him. Someday we may meet these stalwarts who helped to establish this dispensation. Then will we rejoice that we did not seek the shadows when a call to missionary service came from the prophet, even in the autumn of our lives.”

Like all fulltime missionaries who choose to serve the Lord, Sister Enslen and I had our own set of sacrifices, some of which were common and some of which were peculiar to us. Notwithstanding we were on the Lord’s errand and received blessings for it, life still happened. And the truth is, sometimes life is unpleasant, mission or no mission.

While on our mission, my mother was discovered to have breast cancer and underwent three months of radiation treatments in our absence.

One of our daughters was discovered to have three kidneys instead of two, and was suffering from day to day with infectious pain.

Another daughter and a daughter-in-law went through pregnancies and gave births to their children in our absence.

A son was divorced and then remarried to the same former spouse.

A son struggled to earn his degree from a university and find employment.

A son-in-law, employed in a business related to mortgage lending, lost his job along with 200 other employees of the same company.

Grandchildren were blessed. Grandchildren grew older and had birthday parties. Grandchildren were baptized. Grandchildren played sports and participated in theatrical plays and recitals, all in our absence.

There was a Christmas and a Thanksgiving and a Fourth of July and vacations, and we were not there.

Good friends died and were buried.

A tornado destroyed the separate homes of two faithful employees, and we were not there to help.

One of my businesses actually lost money instead of making money for the first time ever.

The cost of our mission far exceeded what we might have expected.

My wife and I suffered sickness because of the unhealthy environment in which we lived. Between us, we made 17 trips to the hospital in a year, to be treated for illnesses ranging from kidney stones to food poisoning.

Following all of that, my father was discovered to have lung cancer that had spread to other parts of his body, and he was not expected to live but a short time.

What do I think about all of this, and what is my advice to other mature couples considering a mission? I say without reservation or hesitation—Go! The sooner, the better! But I will not soft-sell it. The mission field is not a place for sissies. It takes years of planning and preparation, and the work is demanding. But it is worth it, and I don’t believe I have collected my final paycheck yet.

Elder Holland remarked to senior couples in Hong Kong in 1999 that we should lift up our hearts because of our example and heritage of missionary service that we leave our posterity. Said he: “You are half a world away from your families, and doing more for them now than you ever could by staying home. * * * Because of you, all your children and your children’s children will be drawn home; they will choose to come home. Your children and your children’s children will call your name blessed. Even on the other side of the veil, you will be entitled to bless your grandchildren for generations to come. God will empower you.”

Elder Holland continued: “This is the dispensation of the fullness of times. We are so close to history we don’t know we’re making it. Virtually everything we do is unprecedented. No other people in any dispensation have had as great a responsibility. The work is all ours.”

Here’s the bottom line for Sister Enslen and me. The Lord loved us so much that he blessed us beyond measure with many afflictions, and we, believe it or not, “count it all joy…” (James 1:2) We acknowledge the Lord’s hand in all things. We are most grateful to the Church, its leaders, and the Lord for sending us to Siem Reap, Cambodia. It was the right place for us.

I invite each of you to prepare now, even daily, for the future day when you will serve your senior mission. If you do choose to serve, you will never be the same. It is a positive life-changing experience like none other.

To this I bear witness in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.


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